Girl With Cake
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Nerine GardinerEvery so often someone jumps into your sphere with a smile that lights up the world. When that happens, you can't help but want to know a little more. You want to look a little closer and see just who this person is who seems to be radiating enough light to make the world a better place.

I came across 26-year-old Nerine Gardiner a few months ago on Instagram and given that cake is kinda my thing, I jumped into take a closer look.Now I see a
lottacake pages.....and I mean alot, so what was different about this one?Nerine captivated me, not just with her smile but what she is doing and the energy and light that she putting out there in the world.You see, Nerine bakes cakes for strangers. That's right. She bakes cakes and just gives them away! But I'll let her explain all of that.....
1. How did it all start? What made you decide to give the first cake?It's quite a long story. I guess I lost my faith in people after a bad experience. A few months later I ran into my ex-creative director and told him what had happened, and that I felt like all people are probably just bad. He told me that if you stop seeing the good in people, you lose the ability to be good yourself. A few months went by where I tried to look for good things and tried to think of a way that I could do good too. At one stage, I just felt so overwhelmed by bad news stories, etc that I finally just decided to do something to try to fight all the negativity. So, I baked a beautiful cake, the way I would for my best friend. But I gave it to a homeless person on the street instead.I grew up in a family where cake is love - you bake for someone to show them you love them. That was my intention. And I started writing about it because I wanted to encourage others to give of themselves unconditionally and to show them that they're not alone in wanting good things for the world.



4. Tell me the process that you go through when you take your cake out to give it to someone? What influences your decision in who you give the cake to?
I usually bake over two nights because I work full time (and often overtime). So I'll bake the cake one night and ice it the next. Sometimes I'll decide beforehand that I'm giving it to specific petrol attendants or security guards, or I'll plan a trip to a children's hospital. Most of the time I'll just get in my car and drive around until the right person pops up. It's a strange thing - looking for someone to give a cake to. Because a part of me wants to give it to everyone, but there's always a part that believes the right person will stand out. And that usually ends up being the case. Something usually happens that makes someone stick out. Hard to explain, but I feel like it isn't really in my control.


I think for so many of us who love to bake the best part is watching other people devour our baked creations. I know for me, I love to see that look of pleasure that fills someones face, the smile that slowly warms their face and the quick wipe across their mouth as they remove that forgotten crumb and smidgen of cream. I can feel it when someone can taste the love that has gone into cake that I have baked for them. Perhaps then somehow, baking brings a little bit of light to us all.If you haven't already make sure you head over and check out Nerine's blog
Girl With Cakeand if you want to help......perhaps bake a cake for a stranger in your city this weekendFollow Nerine on
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